once had a boyfriend

Chapter 177 A Man with Pure Three Views

Perhaps it was because Nuo Fan told me without reservation, and told me very sincerely, which made me feel that he was very real.All of a sudden, his favorability increased a lot.

In fact, Lai Nuofan's experience is indeed a bit sad.The friend who has been with him day and night for several years is still the person he likes.I have been suppressing my emotions, but when I want to express them, I am directly turned back.

In this situation, if it was He Tian Ge Ge, he would definitely turn the table over, and he might just be thrown down by others......

Emma, ​​I'm just distracted at this moment, so I shouldn't mention people who make me sad.

Nuo Fan said that after that, he had no contact with that friend.When he sent a congratulatory text message in the name of the festival, he found that the other party's number had become empty.Nuo Fan's mobile phone number was bought at school when he was a freshman, and he hasn't changed it for so many years.But his friend changed his number silently after graduation and never contacted him again.

I don't quite understand this situation.Because from the stories Nuo Fan told me, the two of them don't have any conflicts on weekdays.The two have always lived in peace and harmony.In the eyes of others, they are indeed good friends.

The only possible reason for that person to stop contacting Nuo Fan is that that person knows that Nuo Fan likes him.But I can't understand, what's the big deal, we play so well together, so what if people like you.

It seems that I have to temporarily regard that friend of Nuo Fan as a man, a man who thinks that his three views are very pure.Although he and Nuo Fan are good friends who talk about everything, but from the perspective of moral theory and social responsibility, he feels that two men cannot be together.

Therefore, he only hopes to maintain a friendship with Nuofan.And when Nuo Fan wanted to break this stable state, he told Nuo Fan not to speak.

I've read something similar to this in a book.The explanation of this situation in the book is that, in fact, two people are interested in each other, but the two people are not in sync.One of them loves the other deeply and tries hard to suppress it.But the other person is affected by his own three views and social factors.

Therefore, it is impossible for such two people to be together under normal circumstances.In this way, Nuo Fan has never expressed his feelings, so the two are still friends.If he had said it a long time ago, maybe the two of them would not have been friends for a long time...

If things are as I speculate, then I really have to shed tears for Nuo Fan.

However, to my great surprise, Shen Qingyuan on the other side was very cooperative and did not reply to me for several hours.

People in Shen Qingyuan's profession generally prefer to strike up a conversation with others.Therefore, when you encounter a greeting from an unfamiliar number, you should reply and ask who it is, but there is no reply for several hours.Can't help but make me feel a little weird.

There can't be such a coincidence in the world, right?When I go out to relax, can I meet someone's old friend every time I travel? I still don't believe there is such a coincidence.Shen Qingyuan didn't reply to me, probably because he's busy now... If he doesn't reply me at night, I'll harass him again, hehehehehehehe...

When thinking about it like this, I suddenly felt that my mind seemed a little distorted.I hope Shen Qingyuan will reply me quickly, and don't give me this opportunity to continue twisting.

Shen Qingyuan was still very cooperative, knowing that he didn't reply me at night.

In the afternoon, our small tour group of nine people took an open-top tricycle around the island for sightseeing.In the evening, after this day's tour is over, today's activities are considered to be over.There are no activities tonight, everyone is free to move.

At dinner, Nuo Fan and I ate barbecue at a food stall on the street.He said that he hadn't eaten this kind of roadside stall for many years.Because of his current work unit, he must maintain a good image of himself at all times.Whether it is to meet customers or go out with good friends around me, I have never eaten at a roadside stall.

I can still understand this point, the friends around Nuo Fan now are very different from the friends he used to have when he was in school.Everyone is a more mature person, and will be more skilled as a result.It is said that the older a person grows, the more complex he becomes, and he begins to know how to find people with similar status and status as his own to be friends with.

As the saying goes, things gather together and people are divided into groups. The ancients have long understood this truth.Moreover, too much practice tells us that such a situation is still the mainstream of the world.

Nuo Fan doesn't have any friends who eat roadside stalls, they like to go to places that are more high-end and less bourgeoisie.I like to talk about where to go for a massage today, where to buy mink tomorrow, and where to shop for big-name clothes the day after tomorrow.

Nuo Fan said that the last time he ate at a roadside stall was when he was in college, and the few friends we had together at that time had a very good relationship.But when graduation was approaching, the relationship between everyone was busy and their relationship gradually drifted away.After graduation, each went back to his own home, each found his own mother, and each went to a different city to develop.

In the beginning, we still kept in touch with each other occasionally, but as time went on, gradually there was nothing to talk about.Because we have new friends around us, and in a new environment, our lifestyles and values ​​gradually become more and more different, and we have nothing to say.

Perhaps every encounter will be a story of slowly leaving.There used to be so much joy and joy, but in the end it seems that it will turn into a kind of indifference, and become a past that cannot be returned...

Who said that life is a journey that cannot be turned back.The road you have traveled and the people you have met are just a foil for a stage, and then gradually become a passer-by in your life.

I don't know who said this sentence. I remember that when I saw this sentence back then, I felt a little strange.Why do people who used to be so important end up as passers-by.Why can't you keep important people by your side all the time?

It wasn't until later that I realized that many times we can't even control ourselves, let alone control others.What will happen to the two of them, no one can make a definite prediction.Because the world is getting more and more complicated.Even if I resist all the interference, I am still a simple self, but when facing complicated others, I am no longer a normal person.We can no longer adapt to each other's footsteps.

I asked Nuo Fan what he would do if he met that friend again.

Nuo Fan thought for a while, then smiled at me, "Maybe, I'll say hello to him politely."

A polite hello, simple as that.And the word "politeness" often separates people far away...

It was almost 10pm when we got back to the hotel.I accidentally talked for a long time, and I felt a little tired after I came back.

I took a bath, then nestled in bed and played TV.I am very satisfied with this hotel, the layout looks very warm, the curtains, quilts, and bed sheets are all champagne-colored, not as cold as the white of ordinary hotels.

Picking up the phone and looking at it, there was still no movement from Shen Qingyuan.I don't know what's going on with He Tian Ge Ge, if he is looking for me.But I've only left for a while, so he probably hasn't noticed that I'm gone...

Thinking about it this way, it would be more interesting to harass Shen Qingyuan again during the delay.

So, I sent another message in the past.In order not to expose my own identity, I also specially figured out the grammar, so as not to reveal any of my characteristics.Nor does it make him grammatically conclude that I'm not someone.

So, I chose the most standard tone and grammar.

"Are you there?"

I regretted posting this one. Although there are only two words, it seems that I am a person who often spends time on the Internet by asking this question.

After posting, I originally wanted to continue watching TV dramas.However, this time the reply was quite fast.

"You are......"

It seems that not knowing who is really a big problem.

I quickly clicked a few words on the screen, "I'm Nuofan, don't you remember me?"

As soon as I pressed the send button, I felt something was wrong again.The modal particles "ah" and "do" seem a bit naive.For Shen Qingyuan's age group and working people, it seems that such modal particles should not appear.

I feel that the information I sent these two days is very bad! !Unfortunately, it cannot be withdrawn.

Shen Qingyuan's reply was quite quick, "I must have admitted the wrong person, I don't know you."

This sentence seems to have no problem in the eyes of ordinary people.Shen Qingyuan meant that he didn't know Nuo Fan, so there was no problem with such a reply, and the expression was very clear.

but! !This doesn't fit the character setting of Shen Qingyuan at all! !Such a decisive tone is not Shen Qingyuan at all! !Although I am not very familiar with Shen Qingyuan, I am quite clear about his characteristics.It is because of his work that he usually leaves a certain amount of leeway when speaking.I won't speak very deadly all at once.

This decisive "I don't know you", I don't think it should come from Shen Qingyuan's mouth.Because Shen Qingyuan, as a regional game agent, must know a lot of people, so sometimes it is inevitable that people he is not familiar with will contact him.Therefore, he will have some leeway, and he should think about where he might have met this person.If you speak too harshly all of a sudden, if you don't have an impression, if you don't know each other, you will definitely offend people.

Even if I was supercilious, Shen Qingyuan's answer made me think that he must know Nuo Fan.If Shen Qingyuan was the friend Nuo Fan mentioned, then he had changed his number, so he should be very surprised by this sudden text message.

However, if things were as Nuo Fan said, Shen Qingyuan didn't want to have any contact with Nuo Fan after graduation, so he resolutely said that he didn't know each other, which seemed to be very suitable for this situation.

Of course I wouldn't let him go just like that.So, I sent another message, the content was very simple and rude, only three words, "I love you."

If things are as I speculate, then what I say now is superfluous, it is better to be more direct.

Shen Qingyuan's side suddenly fell silent.

I was wondering if I was wrong, Shen Qingyuan thought it was a prank or something.A message came over. I opened it and looked at the text inside, and I was stunned...