Chapter 76 076
Chapter 76 076
The purpose of learning about Meng Xichen's past is to pave the way for marriage.
Although He Yi'an still wanted to use this to untie Meng Xichen's unresolved knots, it turned out that Xichen had no knots at all, so now he only needs to concentrate on getting married.
He Yi'an hesitated for a long time, and finally decided to settle Meng's father and mother first, and then propose.
Meng Xichen was with him, and he had already put too much thought into it, so this time, he wanted to prepare everything before proposing, so that Meng Xichen would not have to worry about this matter, as long as he happily said that he was willing.
Meng Xichen didn't know what he was planning, but he still vaguely guessed.
So when He Yi'an said that he wanted to go back to Meng's house together, and that he wanted to clear up the previous misunderstanding about He Yanjin, Meng Xichen readily agreed.
At Meng's house, He Yi'an seriously explained all the misunderstandings about He Yanjin, and also said that He Yanjin already had a new boyfriend.
Regardless of whether He Yanjin really has a new boyfriend, let's change her boyfriend into a wife first.
After He Yi'an finished talking about He Yanjin, he started promoting himself again.
First, I like the atmosphere of the Meng family, and I hope the friendly relationship between the two families can continue; I also said that Meng Xichen is a good boy, and they got along very happily before; finally, I said that he has always admired Meng Xichen, and the longer he gets along, the more he likes it.
I almost said directly, "Uncle and aunt, I like Chenchen so much, we are already together, and now I want to get married right away".
He Yi'an's words were rather tactful, but none of the people present were fools.
Meng Xichen didn't mind He Yi'an explaining their relationship, since he had already come out of the closet anyway.
But thinking that He Yi'an didn't discuss anything with him before he came, he probably wanted to fight for the position of his daughter-in-law, so he left and went back to the house with an excuse.
The stage is so big, let He Yi'an play it.
Besides... Meng Xichen thought, judging by He Yi'an's posture, it was obvious that he was going to get married, and he didn't tell him, maybe he wanted to surprise him when he proposed.
He fumbled with the pairing rings for many days, and began to think about how to perform so as not to leak the flaws - He Yian wanted to surprise him, of course he had to cooperate, who asked him to spoil He Yian?
He was even considering whether to touch a deduction book to make up for it.
Hey, since He Yi'an recovered from his illness and lost his daily exercise, his acting skills have plummeted!
On the other side, Meng's father and mother also heard He Yi'an's subtext. For some reason, they were not surprised at all.
It was probably because He Yi'an came to Meng's house to look for Meng Xichen before, and they thought about it afterwards.
Just not being surprised doesn't mean it's easy to accept, Meng's father and mother thought for a while, and took He Yi'an to the study room far from Meng Xichen's bedroom, as if they didn't want Meng Xichen to hear what was going to happen next.
"We don't agree." Father Meng said openly and honestly, "Even if you think our feudal thinking is old and stubborn, we don't agree."
He Yi'an came prepared.
"I can totally understand what you mean!" He Yi'an said.
Taking advantage of the second elder being caught off guard by him, he went on to say: "As a parent, you must consider the long-term considerations for your children. I know that everything you do is to protect Chenchen."
"You should think that Chenchen was bullied by many people at school, so compared to strong men, you would prefer a gentle and considerate woman as Chenchen's partner."
"I have already understood what happened back then, and he even told me a large part of it. I came to love him and not to hurt him. No matter what gender I am, I will love him and be considerate of him. I will Do everything I can to make him happy. I won't hurt him!"
"And, I think, you should have faith in your own children."
"He is mature enough and strong enough. He has got rid of those shadows. He is no longer someone who needs to avoid when encountering difficulties."
Meng's father and mother were taken aback for a moment, but for a moment they thought it was all right.
But to He Yi'an's surprise, they still didn't let go.
"Chenchen...was very sensible since he was very young. He didn't need us to distract him, and he could take good care of himself. At that time, we felt that we should not interfere with any of his decisions, and we should give him enough trust and freedom. "
"But it turns out that we were wrong, didn't we? Absolute freedom brought him unscrupulous harm from others. We knew nothing about what he suffered, and we failed to protect him from the risks."
"It was only later that we discovered that controlling him, restricting him, and standing in front of him may not necessarily be a bad thing."
Because they were Meng Xichen's parents, He Yi'an held back and remained silent.
But he still couldn't help complaining in his heart: Don't care when you should care, don't let go when you should let go, isn't it a bit unclear?
But he still didn't say that, but said more tactfully: "When he was underage and immature, your concern was naturally important, but now he is an independent, mature adult who can judge independently ...you should change."
This time, Meng's father and mother were silent for a long time.
But he wasn't thinking about whether He Yi'an's words were correct.
They are debating whether to say something or not.
After a long time, Mother Meng finally said: "You said you understood what happened back then, but there is a part that you must not have understood."
"Maybe you already know that he has seen a psychiatrist, but you probably don't know the content."
"Chenchen is an adult, but he may not be psychologically mature."
He Yi'an frowned in confusion, but still made a gesture of listening attentively.
"You have to promise not to tell him about this." Before speaking, Mother Meng reminded.
After receiving He Yi'an's affirmative reply, Meng's mother talked about what happened back then with an embarrassing expression: "Chenchen was able to recover quickly thanks to Dr. Li's use of hypnosis to blur part of his memory."
"You only know that he was bullied, but you don't know exactly what happened to him. The person who hasn't woken up yet... used to..."
Mother Meng couldn't seem to say those words, and instead said, "More than one person testified that that person had dirty thoughts about Chenchen, and what Chenchen suffered was not just campus bullying."
"When he was bullying Chenchen, there were many times when there was no one else. Only the person concerned knew what happened. But Chenchen forgot even if he was unconscious, so the specific situation is not clear."
"But because of the accident, he became a vegetative state. His family wanted to hold him accountable. When we were looking for physical evidence to prove that Chenchen was acting in self-defense, some people said that they saw Chenchen running out of the toilet dripping wet. torn..."
Some things don't have to be so clear.
It is not necessary to say directly what happened.
There seemed to be something choked in He Yi'an's throat, and he couldn't spit it out or swallow it, which made him extremely uncomfortable.
He was speechless.
Some logical inconsistencies can also be explained.
Meng Xichen said that they didn't do anything, so he beat them.
But the fact is that Meng Xichen's beating was defined as legitimate self-defense, not excessive self-defense.
If you really did nothing, how could it be self-defense?
When He Yi'an was speechless, Meng's mother said again: "Chenchen has forgotten many things after treatment, but those things have also potentially affected him."
"He was bullied, and then he became the strong side; because he was bullied, he became violent."
"The harm he has suffered has always been a heavy pressure in his heart. Although it has been hidden, it can still be seen."
"So, when we heard he liked boys, it was really scary."
He Yi'an fully understood the meaning of this sentence.
Because Meng Xichen was beaten, he later liked to beat people.
He had been treated that way by his own sex, so when he wanted to do the same thing as a vent, it meant that those hidden memories were slowly surfacing.
Maybe Meng Xichen never liked the same sex.
It's all an illusion caused by psychological trauma.
"If you'd seen him at that time, you wouldn't want him to be like that again."
"In the past, we only thought that he was very obedient and no one needed to worry about him. But when we started to face him squarely, we suddenly found that when he was silent, he didn't seem rigid like a living person."
"As parents, we've failed so badly, but we really can't help it, we dare not let it come to mind."
"If you are too intimate, it may irritate him and cause him to think about some past events."
"No one wants to see such a result, right?"
He Yi'an was immersed in great shock and pain, subconsciously nodded, but he felt something was wrong.
Just when he was dazed and confused, there was a knock on the door.
"Ahem," Meng Xichen faked coughing twice in embarrassment, and pushed the door open by himself.
"I didn't eavesdrop on purpose," Meng Xichen explained, "The relatively unpopular books are kept in this study. I came to look for books, and I happened to hear you talking."
"Because they were talking about me, I just listened to a few sentences by the way."
He stepped forward and took He Yi'an's hand, expressing his determination: "I really like him, it's not some bullshit post-traumatic syndrome, liking is just liking, it's not that complicated."
"And...you really misunderstood what happened back then."
"I didn't expect such a version of what you know."
It seems that this matter is not easy to say, Meng Xichen scratched his head and said: "Let's talk about the fuzzy memory first, I can't remember part of it, but what I forget is not what others did to me, but what I responded to. .”
"At that time, I was in a bad state because I was conflicted. There was a voice in my heart telling me that I should deal with everything as before, but I knew very well that I didn't want to be the same as before."
"So I asked Dr. Li to blur part of my memory, so that I couldn't remember how I dealt with things in the past, so there was nothing to worry about. So I can't remember what I did before, I only know roughly , I used to be so obedient as a person."
"I remember exactly what the grandson did, so there's no need for you to cover it up."
Father Meng was so shocked by this speech that He Yi'an was completely confused and didn't know how to react.
Really shocked my whole family.
Everyone was stunned, Meng Xichen had no choice but to say to himself: "Actually, I have known what he thinks about me."
"But he was still young at that time. It was the period when his personality was very awkward. He had thoughts but dared not admit it. I thought, as long as I don't expose him, he will probably continue to deceive himself for a while."
"While he was struggling inside, I took a break. Dealing with these people every day is really tiring."
"As for what you're talking about, coming out of the toilet with wet clothes... that's one of the three old school bullying."
"Someone put a mop against the door while I was in the cubicle, and poured half a bucket of water on my head."
"Because the drenched thief felt uncomfortable, I took off my coat. Later, when I turned out of the compartment from above, I accidentally caught the clothes and tore them."
Father Meng and Mother Meng: "Is that the case?"
Meng Xichen: "That's what happened!"
So everyone breathed a sigh of relief.
The dignified atmosphere gradually warmed up, and Meng Xichen couldn't help laughing at Meng's father and mother: "Your imagination is too rich, and your logic is not rigorous."
"If I was really obscene|molested and had a psychological shadow, how could I like men because of this?"
Meng Xichen said, "You guys remind me of a joke."
"Xiao Ming roasted a chicken, and the dog was staring at it. In order to prevent the dog from eating the chicken, Xiao Ming said, I will do the same to you if you dare to do to the chicken."
"So the dog licked the ass|ass."
Meng's father and mother's theory just now is equivalent to that, because a dog eats a chicken, a man will eat a dog, so if a dog licks a chicken's ass, people will definitely lick a dog's ass.
It may be possible to bluff people in a tense environment just now, but when you think about it carefully, it's not right at all!
The joke Meng Xichen told was so appropriate that Meng's father and mother were embarrassed and wanted to laugh, but Meng Xichen said seriously at this moment: "Although nothing happened, but even if something happened, there is no need to keep it secret. of."
"Being violated and being beaten and scolded should be of the same nature. But when people around you have weird attitudes, and those who know the inside cast strange glances, when this matter is secretive and cannot be easily mentioned, when it needs to be hidden , become a secret that cannot be told... Can the victim still be called a victim?"
"Crime is crime. If everyone agrees that this is a special crime and that it cannot be exposed to the sun, then the victim will have to bear the psychological burden that he should not have to bear, and the perpetrator will get breathing space."
Meng Xichen said with some discomfort: "They don't want to say it, right?"
Meng's father and mother immediately understood what he was talking about.
In order to prove that Meng Xichen was acting in self-defense, the Meng family conducted many investigations. The bystanders and even the perpetrators were able to say a few words, but the victim did not dare to say a word.
How weird and yet so normal.
The Meng family respects the opinions of the victims, so they know that there is injustice but they can only let it go.
Because once things are exposed, the more painful must be the victims.
These unspeakable justice was finally resolved in another way - some people in the school, regardless of whether Meng Xichen committed the crime or not, were beaten.
And the injury is serious.
Although Meng Xichen didn't say it clearly, when mentioning this, Father Meng and Mother Meng immediately understood what Meng Xichen meant—it wasn't because he was immature that he hit someone, but because some things could only be hidden under the skin of violent tendencies.
Meng's father and mother suddenly felt a lot more at ease with Meng Xichen.
Meng Xichen quickly winked at He Yi'an.
He Yi'an also started lobbying very tacitly.
Seeing that Meng's father and mother were still hesitant, Meng Xichen had no choice but to break the jar and say, "Mom~"
Meng Xichen: "Your son is so good-looking, do you think that only one person has bad thoughts about me?"
"Except for the one who is still in the ICU, the big sister in the class next door also molested me more than once!"
"Do you think that the only man caused me psychological trauma? I think she caused me more serious trauma! Then, don't I have sex with both men and women? Then your son will die alone!"
Meng's father and mother: speechless.
Meng Xichen made persistent efforts: "Actually, we..."
Meng Xichen took He Yi'an's hand, and said shyly, "Everything that should happen will happen, and I took the initiative. I really won't be unaffected by the intimate contact."
Mengfu Mengmu: 0–0
He Yi'an tried hard to collapse, but the tips of his ears were all red.
It suddenly occurred to Meng Xichen that after the incident, he had nothing to do with him, but He Yi'an became a boss because of the stimulation.
I have to sign a support agreement with him!
Meng Xichen thought about that scene, and then looked at He Yi'an, feeling that his heart was filled with inexplicable emotions.
He couldn't hold back any of it, and directly knelt down on one knee and took out the ring from his pocket.
"I can't die alone," he said with a smile, "so, would you like to?"
"Would you like it? Yi An."
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